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Ask Amy: Teen daughter must become her own parent

Published Tue, 05 Nov 2024 11:01:32 GMT

Dear Amy: I have a very difficult and stressful relationship with my mother, and I don’t know what to do about it.I am now 19 years old.My mother is an addict and an alcoholic, and she missed out on much of my early childhood years because of it.When I was around eight, she finally sobered up, but she still has a multitude of psychological problems, most likely stemming from years of substance abuse, and she never really grew up.She only thought about herself. She hurt me over and over again. She put her maternal duties aside and wasn’t there for me.Finally, I had enough when she missed my high school graduation last year. She then lied to me about why she had missed it (turns out she was at home the whole time).I tried to tell her how much this had hurt me. In response, she cried, engaged in theatrics, pitied herself, and essentially told me that she was giving up on our relationship because she “always messes up.”I begged her to try to change — for me — but it appears she wo...

Kosovo and Serbia agree on 'some kind of deal' to normalize ties

Published Tue, 05 Nov 2024 11:01:32 GMT

Serbian President Aleksandar Vucic stated that Kosovo and Serbia had reached "some sort of a agreement" to implement a Western-backed agreement to normalize ties on Saturday (18 March)."We have reached agreement on certain points, but not all." Vucic said that this was not the final agreement.He stated that, despite differences on certain issues, discussions with Albin Kurti, Kosovo prime minister, were "decent".He stated that Serbia's accession to the EU will depend on the implementation of the agreement.

The 10 most expensive reported home sales in San Jose the week of March 6

Published Tue, 05 Nov 2024 11:01:32 GMT

A house in San Jose that sold for $3.8 million tops the list of the most expensive real estate sales in San Jose in the last week.In total, 16 real estate sales were recorded in the area during the past week, with an average price of $2.1 million, $851 per square foot.The prices in the list below concern real estate sales where the title was recorded during the week of March 6 even if the property may have been sold earlier.10. $1.8 million, detached house in the 14600 block of Nelson WayThe property in the 14600 block of Nelson Way in San Jose has new owners. The price was $1,800,000. The house was built in 1950 and has a living area of 1,568 square feet. The price per square foot is $1,148. The house features 3 bedrooms and 1 bathrooms.9. $2 million, single-family house in the 900 block of Shadow Brook DriveThe 2,585 square-foot single-family home in the 900 block of Shadow Brook Drive in San Jose has now been sold. The transfer of ownership was settled in February and the total p...

Horoscopes March 20, 2023: Spike Lee, let go of whatever is holding you back

Published Tue, 05 Nov 2024 11:01:32 GMT

CELEBRITIES BORN ON THIS DAY: Ruby Rose, 37; Freema Agyeman, 44; Holly Hunter, 65; Spike Lee, 66.Ruby Rose (Photo by Richard Shotwell/Invision/AP) Happy Birthday: Follow your heart this year and immerse yourself in something that makes you feel passionate and good about yourself and your accomplishments. Let go of whatever is holding you back and concentrate on what you can achieve. Changing how you handle situations and the adjustment you make to improve your life will bring you full circle. Romance is encouraged. Your numbers are 4, 15, 21, 25, 32, 35, 47.ARIES (March 21-April 19): Plan your actions, leave no room for error and use your energy wisely. Don’t let anger set in when action is required. Live up to your promises and walk away from those who don’t. Opportunity begins with you. Clear the path to victory. 3 starsTAURUS (April 20-May 20): Pamper yourself, and you’ll lift your spirits and receive compliments from someone special. A little discipline wi...

Bridge: March 20, 2023

Published Tue, 05 Nov 2024 11:01:32 GMT

Suppose you order out a large pizza, and when the delivery man arrives, he offers you a second large one — plus a complimentary tin of antacid tablets — for a dollar more. Would you accept the offer?Declarer can often take advantage of a two-for-one offer. In today’s deal, North’s jump-raise to three hearts shows game-invitational strength, and South thinks enough of his good trumps, side aces and spade singleton to bid slam. West leads the queen of diamonds, and declarer takes the ace and draws trumps.How should South continue to give himself the best chance for 12 tricks?OVERTRICKSouth can succeed if he wins either a second spade trick or a third club, but he can combine his chances. South should take the K-A of clubs. When the queen falls, he is home (with an overtrick). If instead East-West played low clubs, South could finesse with the queen of spades.The correct play might cost an extra undertrick, but a 50-point investment in making a slam is worthwhil...

Word Game: March 20, 2023

Published Tue, 05 Nov 2024 11:01:32 GMT

TODAY’S WORD — MEMOIRS (MEMOIRS: MEM-whars: Narratives composed from personal experience.)Average mark 14 wordsTime limit 30 minutesCan you find 18 or more words in MEMOIRS? The list will be published tomorrow.SATURDAY’S WORD — MOTHERLY melt merlot metro mole molt more morel mote motel moth mother motley myrtle myth other term them theory therm they throe thyme tole tome tore trey troy tyro helm hero hoer hole holey holy home homely homer homey hotel hotly rely rhyme role rote rotl lore lyre yoreTo purchase the Word Game book, visit WordGameBooks.com. Order it now for just $5 while supplies last!RULES OF THE GAME:1. Words must be of four or more letters.2. Words that acquire four letters by the addition of “s,” such as “bats” or “dies,” are not allowed.3. Additional words made by adding a “d” or an “s” may not be used. For example, if “bake” is used, “baked” or “bakes” are not allowed, but “bake” and “baking” are admissible.4. Proper nouns, slang words, or vu...

Verstappen grumbles despite driving from 15th place to 2nd

Published Tue, 05 Nov 2024 11:01:32 GMT

First he had a stomach bug that delayed his arrival at the Saudi Arabian Grand Prix. Then a mechanical failure in qualifying dropped Max Verstappen deep on the starting grid. So recovering for a second-place finish should have been reason to celebrate, right? Not for the two-time reigning Formula One world champion. Verstappen barely even praised Red Bull’s second straight 1-2 finish after he rallied from 15th to finish behind teammate Sergio Perez at the Jeddah Corniche Circuit on Sunday. Verstappen won the the season-opener in Bahrain, with Perez second. Not even earning a bonus point for logging the fastest lap of the race — a point that kept Verstappen atop the F1 standings — could ease his frustration. “The whole feeling in the team, everyone is happy. But personally, I’m not happy,” Verstappen said after the race. “Because I’m not here to be second, especially when you are working very hard back at the factory to make sure that you arrive here in a good state, and basica...

Women’s tennis works to safeguard against predatory coaches

Published Tue, 05 Nov 2024 11:01:32 GMT

Lindsay Brandon is a lawyer whose past clients include athletes disputing doping suspensions. In her new post as the WTA’s first director of safeguarding, Brandon is leading an increased effort to protect athletes from predatory coaches — and others — on the women’s professional tennis tour.“Safeguarding is about emotional abuse. Physical abuse, as well. And it’s not just coach-athlete,” Brandon said in a telephone interview from the BNP Paribas Open, which wrapped up Sunday in Indian Wells, California, and was the first tournament she visited as part of the job she began 3 1/2 months ago.“There are other people that are part of this process,” Brandon told The Associated Press. “There can be athlete-to-athlete issues. There can be issue with respect to training staff separate from coaches. Those are just some of the examples.”Her priorities include managing the WTA security team’s investigations of complaints — she did not reveal how many are currently active — and “monitoring any p...

Md. bill would allow nonviolent offenders to get jobs at casinos

Published Tue, 05 Nov 2024 11:01:32 GMT

A new bill in Maryland would make it possible for people convicted of specific nonviolent crimes to get jobs at local casinos.“These are opportunities that help create a change within our community,” Maryland State Del. Nick Charles from Prince George’s County told WTOP.More Maryland NewsMore Local NewsCharles sponsored the bill, saying it’s an opportunity to change the law to help support reentry into the workforce. MGM Resorts is working in partnership with Charles to help get the bill passed.“For folks who have misdemeanors, nonviolent crimes, you know, this is a big deal,” Charles said.The bill is making its way through the State House but hasn’t been voted on yet.Right now, Maryland law stops those with a conviction, on active parole, or on probation for crimes from applying for a lottery employee license in order to get a job at a casino seven years from the date of the offense.The new law would allow previous nonviolent offenders whos...

March Madness rounds the corner to the Sweet 16

Published Tue, 05 Nov 2024 11:01:32 GMT

We know you’re upset. Underdogs have blown up every bracket in the country.Upside of the upsets: perhaps the maddest March ever.Defending national champion Kansas and fellow No. 1 seed Purdue are gone — the Boilermakers with a slice of unwanted history. The Sweet 16 won’t have blue bloods Kentucky, Duke or North Carolina for the second time since 1979.In are upstarts like Princeton, Florida Atlantic and a team picked to finish last in the Big 12.And, this being March, of course there’s Tom Izzo.SOUTH REGIONAlabama has looked every bit the No. 1 overall seed, blowing out Texas A&M-Corpus Christi and Maryland despite turmoil swirling around the program. Waiting for Alabama in Louisville, Kentucky will be San Diego State. The fifth-seeded Aztecs are old and love to knock you around — just ask College of Charleston and Furman.The second game marks Princeton’s first Sweet 16 in 56 years. The No. 15 seed Tigers had the first major March upset by knocking off No...